Wayward Son

Musician. Composer. Recovering perfectionist. Minister-in-transition. Lover of puns. Hijacker of rock song references. Questioner of the status quo. I'm not really a rebel. Just a sincere Christ-follower with a thirst for significance that gets me into trouble. My quest has taken me over the fence of institutional Christianity. Here are some of my random thoughts along the way. Read along, join in the conversation. Just be nice.

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The Inoculation of Religion

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Categories: Meanderings (look it up), Rantings

Recent discussions on this here blog have got my mind turning…as if it didn’t have enough to do. 🙂 Not really so much agreeing or disagreeing with comments made, or anything like that…just thinking.

Specifically, I’ve been thinking about what would make us not know when it’s real.

For a long time I’ve thought of religion as working the same way that a vaccine does, only instead of making us healthier, it has the opposite effect.

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Dear God, If It Isn’t Any Trouble…Please Fix The Outdoor Thermostat. Thanks.

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Categories: random stuff, What the heck was THAT?

I walked out the door this morning to the second coldest actual temperature I ever remember experiencing. Actual temp: -15 degrees F, windchill -26.

That’s -26 actual degrees Celsius, for my Australian peeps.

I have a blogger friend in Alaska who is probably laughing right now.

The coldest morning in my memory was in Cincinnati, Ohio, 20 years ago this winter. Actual temp: -20 degrees. I remember this specifically because the engine block in my car froze, and I didn’t know it until it started smoking and clunking and died on the freeway while I was trying to go take a test. Things aren’t that critical today. 🙂 I’ve probably been in colder weather, but I was too young to remember. I only remember as a kid living in Michigan that a few times my mom wouldn’t let me go outside and play in the snow because it was too cold, and I didn’t understand why.

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We Know When It’s Real–or Do We?

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Categories: Meanderings (look it up)

In response to my previous post, Gary D. said this (among other things):

“Realness and authenticity are valuable things in ones spiritual life with Christ. You are so correct when you say that there are people inside the bubble who are deceived, who think that because they are in the protective bubble that all is right and ok.”

And Erin followed with this statement:

“My prayer was (in response to a series of somethings that had happened in the church) ‘If this is who you really are, I want nothing more to do with you.'”

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Life Outside the Bubble (part 3–Perils, Pitfalls, and Following)

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Categories: food for thought, Meanderings (look it up)

Part 1
Part 2

I think when I see people inside the Christian culture-bubble respond to those who are outside it, the number one emotion I see is not resentment, or even judgment (though those are certainly factors). Rather, the number one emotion, I think, is fear.

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Life Outside the Bubble (part 2–The Difference)

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Categories: changing mindsets, food for thought

In my previous post, I talked about how I used to live deep within the bubble which is the church subculture, and how God burst those bubbles in my life, and how I am now outside the bubble without losing my faith.

So if I’m still a Christian after all this…what’s the difference that leaving the bubble has made in my life?

As I reflect on where I am now, and what kind of person this process has shaped me into–especially as I grow more settled in a new palatte for my faith–here are some of the things I see that are different about my life and discipleship:

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A Post-Thanksgiving Not-So-FAQ About My New Life In Denver

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Categories: What the heck was THAT?

Okay, let me unpack that…this would be a FAQ about my new life in Denver, except nobody is really asking these questions–which means they are actually Not-So-Frequently-Asked-Questions. And this is after Thanksgiving…hence the name.

Why are you writing a Not-So-FAQ?
Because these are questions people would ask if they thought of them.

How are you liking Denver?
Lovin’ it.

How do you like your flat?
It’s awesome. My favorite apartment ever.

Even though it’s less than half the square footage of where you used to live?
Even though.

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Checking In

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Categories: random stuff

Hope you all had a great Thanksgiving!

I might be a little sparse here over the holiday weekend. Gonna chop down a tree, get ready for a special advent worship time on Sunday, spend time with family, and maybe catch up on some paid writing assignments.

Of course, now that I say this, I’ll probably post here every day this weekend. 🙂 But it will probably be fun, useless type stuff, if it happens.

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Can Yuo Raed Thsi?

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Categories: What the heck was THAT?

I haerd smoethnig a copule of yaers ago. I hared thta if yuo mxi up teh ltteers of aech wrod or eevn mispel smoe of thme, peeopl cna stlil raed it. Yuo jsut need to kepe teh frist adn lsat lerttes of each wrod crorect whneever psosible. Our brians aer supopsed to be albe to firgue out teh rset.

So yuo dnot reely nede to wrory if yuo cnat spel. Yoo jsut nede to get teh frist and lsat lteres rihgt, adn yuo haev it maed.

So…did it wrok? Wree yuo albe to raed tihs?

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Billy Jo Daugherty: 1952-2009

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Categories: things that don't fit in any category in particular

Billy Jo Daugherty, pastor of Victory Christian Center in Tulsa (one of Tulsa’s “big three” mega-churhes) passed away Sunday from lymph cancer at the age of 57.

I only got word of his illness a few weeks ago. I don’t think anyone actually knew for very long. Most of my information was received word-of-mouth, so I can’t verify the accuracy of this…but what I heard was that he went to the hospital for throat issues, and they discovered the cancer. By the time they found it, it was apparently quite advanced. I am sobered and saddened to hear of his death.

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